• Foreword by Hillary Rodham Clinton
• The Gratitude Attitude
• Introduction: We Were Before Panyhose, Penicillin, and the Pill...
• BEFORE TOM
• Army Brat
• Wellesley College • WITH TOM • Marriage, Kids, and The New York Times
• "Here Beginneth a New Life"-- Amherst, Massachusetts
• After the Kids Leave, the Fun Starts
• Fifty Years of Sex
• The Beginning of the End
• AFTER TOM • Making Do and Carrying On
• A Coda
• Index